"But You Don’t Know What They Did"

Written By Life Anchor Coach

For those who feel that their pain is too deep for healing.

The buts are endless: “But you don’t know how bad it was… But you don’t know what they took from me… But you don’t know the nights I cried.”
And maybe I don’t. But Jesus does.

  • John 4: The woman at the well didn’t hide her past; Jesus named it and still offered her living water.

  • Healing doesn’t ignore the pain — it exposes it to the Light that can heal it.

  • Every “but” is an opportunity for God to show His “yet.”

  • What “buts” do you tell yourself when you hear that God can heal you?

  • How have those “buts” kept you from trusting Him?

  • What would it look like to let God’s Word speak louder than your excuses?

“Lord, my pain feels like a fortress I must defend. Break down the walls with Your truth.”

Life Anchor Coach

Founder of Life Anchor Center | Biblical Counselor | Reformed Christian

Hi, I’m Marisely Marte—a woman radically changed by the grace of God. After years in the grip of false doctrine, addiction, and emotional pain, I found true freedom through Christ and the power of His Word. Today, I walk firmly in Reformed faith, offering biblical counseling that doesn’t water down the truth but lovingly guides women through the storms of life with Scripture as our anchor.

At Life Anchor Center, we don’t play church. We dig deep. We confront lies. And we walk alongside you with honesty, compassion, and truth. Whether you’re battling anxiety, navigating broken relationships, or healing from church hurt and deception—I’m here to help you find clarity, direction, and healing through the sufficiency of God’s Word.

Let’s break the cycles, ditch the noise, and root your life in something unshakable—Christ alone.

https://www.lifeanchorcenter.org/
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