When the Past Won’t Let Go

For the person who feels chained to shame and regret.

Some wounds don’t fade — they keep reopening every time you’re reminded of what happened. It’s not just a memory; it’s a shadow that follows you. And when you’ve lived through bad theology, spiritual abuse, or deep betrayal, that shadow can feel like your identity.

  • Psalm 103:12 — “As far as the east is from the west, so far does He remove our transgressions from us.”

  • Your past can explain your pain, but it does not define your worth.

  • In Christ, your past is a testimony, not a prison sentence.

What parts of your past feel “unforgivable” to you?

  1. How have you allowed past wounds to become your name tag?

  2. What would change if you believed God’s verdict over your own feelings?

“Lord, my past feels louder than Your promises. Remind me that my name is ‘Beloved’ and not the mistakes I’ve made or the wounds I carry.”

Life Anchor Coach

Founder of Life Anchor Center | Biblical Counselor | Reformed Christian

Hi, I’m Marisely Marte—a woman radically changed by the grace of God. After years in the grip of false doctrine, addiction, and emotional pain, I found true freedom through Christ and the power of His Word. Today, I walk firmly in Reformed faith, offering biblical counseling that doesn’t water down the truth but lovingly guides women through the storms of life with Scripture as our anchor.

At Life Anchor Center, we don’t play church. We dig deep. We confront lies. And we walk alongside you with honesty, compassion, and truth. Whether you’re battling anxiety, navigating broken relationships, or healing from church hurt and deception—I’m here to help you find clarity, direction, and healing through the sufficiency of God’s Word.

Let’s break the cycles, ditch the noise, and root your life in something unshakable—Christ alone.

https://www.lifeanchorcenter.org/
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